Family with two children walking a quiet Vietnamese street, clay model

Vietnam with kids: what actually needs planning

Short answer

Three things need planning: traffic, because crossing a road is a learned skill here and road safety is what advisories warn about; water, because tap water is not drinkable untreated for anyone; and distance, because Vietnam runs 1,650 km north to south and children pay for every extra hop.

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The three things to plan

Issue
Traffic The real risk, and advisories highlight motorbike deaths
Crossing a road Walk steadily, do not stop or run
Tap water Not drinkable untreated, for anyone
Distance 1,650 km north to south
Better shape Two bases with day trips
Climate Three regions with different wet seasons
Phu Quoc 30 days visa free arriving directly from outside Vietnam
Laundry Widely available, so pack light

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Attitude is not the problem

Visitors are often surprised by how children are treated. They are not tolerated in restaurants, they are included, and a family walking into a small place will usually be met rather than seated. That part needs no planning.

What needs planning is physical: traffic, heat, water and distance. All four are manageable, and none of them improve by being discovered on day two.

Roads first

Australia’s travel advice for Vietnam highlights motorbike deaths, and this is the one area where a visiting adult’s instincts are actively wrong. Crossing a road in a Vietnamese city means walking at a steady, predictable pace so that traffic flows around you. Stopping suddenly or running is what causes collisions, because it breaks the prediction other road users are making.

With children that becomes a rule: hold hands, cross as a single unit, and do not let a child dart. Practise it once on a quiet street before you need it on a busy one.

The wider safety picture is in is Vietnam safe.

Water, for everybody

Tap water is not safe to drink untreated, and households boil it or buy bottled. That is not a children’s rule, it is the rule, and the full explanation is in can you drink the tap water. With small children it is worth being stricter than you would be alone about teeth and about fruit rinsed in tap water.

Commercially made ice is from treated water and is used everywhere.

Shape the trip around fewer moves

Vietnam is 1,650 kilometres north to south across three climate regions. Every hop between regions costs a day, and with children it costs more than a day because it costs sleep.

Two bases with day trips almost always beats five stops, and it is also cheaper, which is the point made in what a trip to Vietnam costs. Which month suits which coast is in when to go to Vietnam.

The paperwork shortcut

Phu Quoc allows 30 days visa free to all foreign visitors arriving directly by air or sea from outside Vietnam. For a family whose trip is mostly a beach week, that removes a step. The rest of the entry rules are in visa on arrival.

Keeping in touch

Two phones that work, rather than one, is the version of this that matters with children, along with maps that load when you are lost with a tired four year old. Sizing is in how much mobile data for Vietnam and the plans are in the Vietnam eSIM store.

Questions

Is Vietnam suitable for children?

Children are welcomed in a way that surprises visitors from places where restaurants tolerate rather than include them. The practical difficulties are traffic, heat and distance rather than attitude, and all three respond to planning.

What is the real risk?

Roads. Australian travel advice highlights motorbike deaths, and crossing a road in a Vietnamese city is a learned technique: walk steadily and predictably so traffic can flow around you, never stop suddenly or run. With small children, hold hands and cross as one unit.

Can children drink the tap water?

No, and neither can anyone else. Tap water is not safe to drink untreated, and households boil it or buy bottled. Use bottled for drinking and be stricter than you would be for yourself about teeth and rinsed fruit.

How much moving around is too much?

The country runs 1,650 kilometres north to south, and each hop between regions costs a day and a night's sleep. Two bases with day trips works far better with children than five stops, and it costs less.

Is there anywhere with easier entry rules?

Phu Quoc allows 30 days visa free for all foreign visitors arriving directly by air or sea from outside Vietnam. That is a separate rule from the e-visa, and it can simplify the paperwork for a family beach week.

Sources

  1. Smartraveller (Australia): Vietnam travel advice
  2. Wikipedia: Water supply and sanitation in Vietnam
  3. Wikipedia: Geography of Vietnam
  4. Wikipedia: Visa policy of Vietnam